Author : Tom Vick | Aug 24, 2019
Being A Single Parent
Today’s families come in a variety of shapes and sizes. The “typical” household made up of 2 parents and 2.5 children is no longer typical. You may be raising your children on your own. Being a single parent can be challenging. It can also be very rewarding. This is a short note about how you can organize and improve your life as a single parent.
Path to improved well being
You may be a single parent due to divorce or death of a partner. Maybe you are parenting alone by choice. Being a single parent doesn’t mean you’re alone. You may have family members, friends, or neighbors nearby that can pitch in when you need them. You can also find a support group for single parents in your community. Look to your local community centers and religious organizations to see the groups they offer. You’ll meet other people who are in similar situations. Participating in a support group gives you a chance to share your feelings and get advice.
Being a single parent can cause financial strain. You may have problems finding childcare. The life of a singleparent can be very busy. In addition to taking care of your children and your home, you may also be working and/or going to school. It’s important to find a way to balance all of the parts of your life. There are things you can do so you don’t feel overwhelmed.
Things to consider
Children benefit from good role models of both sexes. Look for family members or friends of the opposite sex to be good examples for your children. Invite a positive and responsible family member or friend to spend time with your child. If you don’t have a family member or friend available, groups like Big Brothers. Big Sisters can help also.
Parenting is hard work. All parents have times when they get angry or frustrated. But don’t take out your feelings on your child. If you start to feel overwhelmed, ask for help right away.